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Monday, 29 December 2014
He was Mauled to death by....
21 pupils Blood was stolen by there School Teachers
Pupils.
Mothers would be scared after reading this!! A primary
school teacher who illegally draws blood from 21 pupils
Thursday, 18 December 2014
the best things to do when friends ignored you.
How to Cope when You Feel Left Out
It feels terrible to be left out by your friends, but it happens to everyone. Sometimes, friends go out without you and you can feel pretty down about it. Other times, you can be with people and feel incredibly left out of the conversation or situation for one reason or another.Keeping busy is one important means for helping move beyond feeling morose, sad, or self-piteous, as is assessing the situation realistically. Whether you're left at home wondering why you weren't asked to join in, or you're right in the middle of action but feeling lonely, here are some ways to cope and respond.
Steps
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1Be realistic. Everyone feels left out from time to time. Unless you've fallen out with, or upset your loved ones somehow, being left out this time is unlikely to be a regular occurrence. The worst response to this type of situation is to feel sorry for yourself and to sit tight waiting for someone else to solve your sorrow. White knights don't charge in to mop up self-pity; only you can do that.
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2Look honestly at the situation. Analyze it. If you are new to the area and attend an open function, some groups reach a point where they're not welcoming new members. You may have to attend several times before anyone makes you feel welcome or you may have to find a different activity to meet new friends at. Look around at the people who are there and listen to them. If you aren't attracted to them and don't think they're cool, the feeling is probably mutual.
Seek like-minded people.
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3If you already know them and used to fit in, that's different. You can make a choice to feel rotten and to berate your friends, or you can make a choice to see this as a blip in your otherwise very steady friendships.
- If you have had a disagreement with your friends, then it's time to mend fences rather than to curtail your own enjoyment; staying in a huff will only increase the hurt.
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4Smile. A smile can remedy many things, from your mood to your attractiveness to others. You may not feel like smiling but doing so will help you to feel much better, even if you're forcing it. This is as important if you're left at home as when you're in a group of people. It's a way of
cheering yourself up and getting yourself engaged in thinking good thoughts rather than sad ones.
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5Try not to read too much into being left out of a situation. Sometimes people get caught up in all sorts of self-justifying reasons as to why they don't have the time, energy, or resources to ensure that all of their friends are invited along to an event. Often, there will be legitimate reasons (even if wrongly applied to you) as to why they didn't choose or think to ask you along. For example, your friend may have thought you were already busy with
something else. Perhaps they assumed that you weren't interested in the particular occasion, or thought they were sparing your feelings from having to meet someone at the event whom you no longer care for. If you feel they left you out when you're around them, the explanation might be that your friends didn't notice your discomfort, or they thought you were perfectly happy talking with other people in the group.
- Always look for the simple explanation first. It could very well be the best and truest, and the least bad faith interpretation of your friends' motives.
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6Find something to do. Look for the good in the moment rather than sinking into your feelings. When you feel left out, alone, or abandoned, the best thing to do is to find something to do. This will distract you from turning the left out feelings into something bigger than they need to be and it will ensure that you're occupied and happy rather than passively moping. For example:
If you feel you've been stuck at home while your friends are out, spoil yourself. Take a bubble-bath with your favorite scented candles and a book. Or take a walk or a run with your iPod. Exercise releases endorphins which make you feel happy. Alternatively, you could go into town and go shopping, or browse. Even if you don't buy anything, cruising the shops can be very relaxing on your own.
- If you're at an occasion where your friends seem to have abandoned you or aren't involving you in what they're doing, find your own path. Strike up conversations with new people, offer to help out with food, dare yourself to learn a new skill if you're at an occasion where activities are being offered, or sit still and write a poem or update your Twitter feed (just be sure not to complain about your friends). Getting involved with other people or activities is a good way to make the most of the occasion and to ensure that you are not left twiddling your thumbs, feeling helpless without your friends.
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7Talk to your friends about your feelings. Another very important means for dealing with situations in which you feel left out by your friends is to be direct and to tell them how you feel, as well as asking them about their reasons for leaving you out. Let them know that you felt left out by explaining what the occasion was and why you wished they had asked you along or stayed with you at an event. And it's also important to ask your friends politely why the situation occurred as it did; don't assume they are to blame for leaving you out, just ask considerate questions that can lead to a fruitful dialog. You might say something like:
- "I was really disappointed when you guys went rollerblading
last Saturday and didn't ask me along too. I know I was tired Friday
night but I was up for doing things on
Saturday and it wasn't until X told me you guys were out there that I knew I'd not been asked to come too. Was there any reason why you didn't think to ask me too?"
- "I loved the party we went to last week but I felt that you and X abandoned me. That new guy was not interested in talking to me and when I looked for you two, I couldn't find you anywhere and I felt really left out because I didn't know anyone else. What happened to you both? Did you realize that I was all alone at the party?".
- "I was really disappointed when you guys went rollerblading
last Saturday and didn't ask me along too. I know I was tired Friday
night but I was up for doing things on
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8Listen openly to your friends' responses. They may be surprised that you felt left out. They may tell you that your recent illness/recent break-up/visiting relatives/lack of funds/parental control, whatever, were a reason behind their choice not to include you. Use this as an opportunity to set straight any assumptions they may hold that caused them to mistakenly leave you out.
- Be honest with yourself. Have you done things to cause your friends to want to leave you out? For instance, have you been demanding, pushy, or thoughtless about their needs lately? Or perhaps you have overcrowded them a little. This may be the reason they left you out in the first place, to find space and peace. If this is the case, own up to it, apologize, and be determined to make changes.
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9Be proactive and arrange things to do with your friends. If you think that part of being left out may be due to your own situation making things harder for friends to know when to involve you (for example, a heavy study schedule, long work hours, home responsibilities, hobby or sports commitments, etc.), then help them by making suggestions that fit in with your schedule. Being out of sight can sometimes lead to you being out of mind. They'll soon let you know if they can't make the time but most likely your attempt to meet halfway will be appreciated. It might be the cinema, or just grabbing some coffee with them. But it'll make you feel part of the friendship again.
- When you initiate the activities with friends, this provides an excellent opportunity to ferret out any negative agenda that may have been occurring. If they refuse your suggestions several times, then it may have a deeper meaning that your "friendship" isn't so friendly anymore. On the other hand, you may find that they're really happy that you're finally taking the initiative to organize some of the things to do together.
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10If your friends continue to leave you out, heed the message. In the case where you are always left behind or ignored, then it's time to face up to the reality that you can't count on these people as "friends". Purposeful, continued leaving you out, and condescending comments are a sign that they're using you and deliberately hurting you. In that case, it's time to find people who respect and care about you. While this may be hard to face initially, it's a much easier choice than sticking around with people who keep bringing you down and treating you like a doormat. You know you deserve much better than that and real friends don't bring you down
- Consider going to a church or religious group with regular meetings. Even if you're atheist, there are atheist organizations that meet regularly. Meeting with people who share common ground can be a way to build new friendships.
- Value yourself. If you allow people into your life as "friends" who behave in ways that hurt you, you are devaluing your worth and allowing them to call the shots. Valuing yourself means recognizing their negative behavior and protecting yourself from it. Choose your friends wisely...
after fighting with his ex-wife and killing his two daughters, he was sentenced to life inprisonment..
Dad sentenced to life in prison for killing his two daughters after fight with ex-wife


According to prosecutors, after his wife divorced him, an angry Charles killed his own children just to make their mother suffer. He smothered Savannah, 4, and Indianna, 3, after playing with them.
Though he was sentenced to life in prison, Charles is eligible for parole after 31 years. Charles, who has since regretted his action, has refused to go into details as to how and why he killed the little girls, only saying he deserves to be punished.
On the day of the murders, the girls mother dropped them off with him, he then took them shopping for new clothes and shoes. What happened next isn't clear but Charles called the police to his home.
When police arrived at his place, he told them "It’s done. I’ve killed them. I’ve killed my kids. You’ll have to ask (my former wife why).”
The police found the children lying dead on in the home dressed in the new clothes and shoes their dad just bought. Before killing his kids, Charles filmed them dancing to 'Let it go' a song from Disney movie, Frozen and even played with them. In the video which officers later saw, the killer told his girls to show their mum the clothes he just bought for them. The excited kids did, then Charles looked menacingly at the camera and said "We’ll show mum something else in ten minutes". He then played hide and seek with then before smothering them with a pillow.
Unbelievable!
catholic-catholic ticket was opposed by anglician church in enugu guber race
Anglican Church opposes Catholic-Catholic ticket in Enugu guber race

Speaking to newsmen in Enugu under the aegis of the Enugu Ecclesiastical Province yesterday Dec. 17th, the Anglican Bishops led by Archbishop of the Enugu Ecclesiastical Province, Most Rev Emmanuel Chukwuma demanded that the Enugu chapter of the PDP, zone the governorship running mate slot to one of its members otherwise they stand the chance of loosing the Anglican Church's votes in next year's election.
“We the Anglican Bishops are crying and appealing that Anglicans in Enugu state will not tolerate marginalisation and should be giving the position of deputy governor of the state. For the position of governor and deputy governor to be Catholic/Catholic will not be acceptable to us. In the Federal level, people are not happy with Christian/Christian ticket, hence the president has taken a very good stand to return as President and pick a Moslem as his running mate. Why should Enugu State, therefore, nominate a Roman Catholic governorship candidate who we are not against and wanting again to nominate a Roman Catholic as the running mate? We Anglicans say no to this kind of arrangement. We are not in minority in Enugu state and we totally reject that intention and are warning that if they want peace to reign in this state and for them to enjoy our cooperation, it should not be Roman Catholic/ Roman Catholic ticket”the bishops said.
“Former Governor of the State, Chimaroke Nnamani who served from 1999 to 2007 is a Methodist. He picked Okechukwu Itanyi, a Catholic as his Deputy. Nnamani handed over to Sullivan Chime who is Roman Catholic. Sullivan chose Sunday Onyebuchi, a Methodist or so, not an Anglican as Deputy. As they are going out, all those who want to become governor are Catholics and in the PDP, they are plotting to make their running mate a Catholic. We are saying give us an Anglican Deputy, otherwise you are looking for our trouble"...
Stella Damasus finally opens up on her relationship with Daniel Ademinokan..
Stella Damasus finally opens up on her relationship with Daniel Ademinokan
By Omotola Filani on December 16, 2014
For the first-time ever, Nollywood actress, Stella Damasus is opening up about aspects of her personal life that has dominated the media in the past years.
For over 3 years now, Stella Damasus has never publicly responded nor has she granted an interview to anyone regarding the rumors, gossips and side talks on repeated allegations that she’s a “husband snatcher”.
However, in a new interview with Emma Emerson of Golden Icons, she talked about her highly publicized and controversial relationship with Daniel Ademinokan.
“I am not a kid. I am 36 years old. I am not about to start hiding myself. I was waiting for somebody to actually ask me this question, because all I have heard for the past two, three years are rumours. They said, blogs said, this said. Nobody has been bold enough to confront me and ask me. So I say, if I steal something from somebody, and the person is really the owner of the thing, you come and ask me, ‘you took something from me, give me back’. But nobody was able to that.
“After my late husband’s death, I got married again and the marriage didn’t work. After eight (8) months, it crashed. People didn’t hear much about it, why? We were both mature to understand that we came together, we knew that the thing was not working, instead of us to become enemies, we will remain friends, let’s just let it go quietly. And we let it go quietly. I didn’t blame anybody else for doing it; he didn’t blame anybody else for doing it. So, I am wondering, two people come together they go their separate ways, this one meets somebody, all of a sudden, it is that somebody that is the problem. Did anybody ever ask, what went wrong? Why would a man pick up his son and walk away from his marriage?
“Was there anytime another woman was the problem until the man moved on with another woman? Nobody brought up Stella’s name, then all of a sudden, ‘oh he’s moved on with somebody else (snaps fingers), it must be her’. How? I am still waiting for somebody to come with proof to say ‘oh when they were still in marriage, when they were still in a house, you came and did this.’ So, the reason why I don’t like talking about it is that, there are some things I would say to you and you would look at me like ‘oh wow’ but I don’t want to be derogatory, I don’t want to tow the line that other people have towed by talking bad about people.www.godwilllyrics.blogspot.com
Friday, 12 December 2014
Bomb blast hit jos at least 30 people.
Two bomb blast hit Jos, at least 30 people
killed
Two bombs exploded this evening in the city of Jos. The
bombs reportedly went off at a popular roundabout on
Ahmadu Bello Way, Jos. An eyewitness told BBC Africa that at
least 30 people were killed. Details later.
Wednesday, 10 December 2014
Boko Haram hit list was seized by The Nigeria Military.
The Nigerian military on Tuesday said it has recovered a
Boko Haram hit list, which contains names of
communities targeted by the extremist group.
The Defence Headquarters through its official Twitter
page said other documents, including sketches of towns,
were also recovered.
Boko Haram militants have overrun several communities
in northeast Nigeria, killing residents and destroying
their homes and places of worship.
The military has, in recent weeks, reclaimed some towns
that fell to the terrorists.
In two separate operations spanning Adamawa and
Bauchi states, government troops killed 27 suspected
terrorists during fighting, defence spokesperson, Chris
Olukolade, was quoted as by PRNigeria as saying.
PRNigeria publishes statements by the military.
“During a hot pursue of the terrorists around Hildi,
Adamawa State, at least seven of the terrorists lost their
lives while a total of five rifles, hundreds of rounds of
ammunition as well as bows and arrows were captured
from them,” it said.
It said during another raid operation conducted on Balmo
and Lame forests linking Borno, Bauchi and Adamawa
states, troops recovered rifles and a number of
motorcycles after a stiff resistance by terrorists was
crushed.
Over 20 of Boko Haram fighters lost their lives while
some were reported wounded, the report said...pray for Nigeria!!!!
Monday, 8 December 2014
SHE WAS SET ABLAZE BY HIS HUSBAND FOR GIVEN BIRTH TO ONLY FEMALE CHILDREN.
Her husband, Paul Nwakpuke who is a patent medicine dealer, allegedly hired some assassins to kill his wife because she could not give him a male child.
“They doused her with fuel, set her on fire and when they discovered that she had been severely burnt to the extent that she may not survive it. They abandoned her and ran from the scene,” sources told ThisDay.
Passersby found her and took her to the Federal Teaching Hospital, Abakaliki where she is reportedly battling to stay alive.
The victim’s younger brother, Mr. Sunday Nwigbo has said Paul was responsible for the incident. Nwigbo disclosed that Paul had always been furious with his wife of 12 years for only giving birth to female children.
The husband is said to be on the run at the moment......
